THE SECRET OF A CONFIDENT LADY
confidence is all about being positive, bold, vibrant concerning what you can do and eager to know what you can’t do. A confident lady is open to learning because she knows that her confidence allows her to walk through some life challenges,she is eager to know what is on the other side, she believes in herself, she believes every unknown has a special lesson , she feels safe, loved, valuable, cared for and safe in God’s hand. she doesn’t concentrate on her weakness she develop and maximise her ability though she fails but failure to her is inevitable in success (heb 10:35-36) she answers her call of purpose in time by trying until she finds success to fulfill purpose.
1 A confident lady is rest assured that the love of the Lord is her strength. Love is the healing balm everyone needs and God offers it freely his love is unconditional and unmerited.
2 she discovers her hidden virtue which make her answer her call of purpose in time, she devote her time in building what she gets delighted into fulfilling her purpose on earth.
3. she is positive being: positive is much more fun and fruitful, confidence and negativity can’t mix together being positive or negative is a choice being negative will only attract disappointment and rejection. God is positive that is the way he is and positivity is reality and that’s why he encourages us to be like him (rom 8:28 ).
4. A confident lady avoids comparison, comparisons attract depression and a confident lady is always cheerful and happy, though no matter how good looking, talented or successful We are, there is someone who is better than us. confidence is just doing your best without being intimidated by anyone life style God does not make mistake in the way he has created you, you are just the best of your kind a rare gem that’s who you are, your appearance is God’s image you look exactly like God your creator.
5. A confident lady never lives in fear she refuse to be intimidated or perplex by people’s reaction (1 Tim 1:7) God has not given us the spirit of fear . fear is a tool of the devil to deprive you of your right.
6. A confident lady doesn’t live in the world of ” how I wish” or “what if” she does not spend her life in becoming what she don’t intend, she doesn’t feel empty and unfulfilled because she spent her life on fulfilling purpose. The resource she has is more than enough to be successful for her. Don’t live in the world of “if only I had more education” or ” how I wish I had more time” “if only I had more money”. use what you have to fulfill your given purpose in life.
Lastly no one is born confidential but with the help of God and holy spirit as a lady (a vessel unto honour) you be confident, out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speak you feel empty when you think on things that will hinder your success or thinking on why God created you black . Think more on the love of God which can take you to places be hunger, desperate and thirsty for more of God. The only thing which can hinder you from God is your sin, don’t remain in your sin the grace is still there (rom 6:1).
I believe in God
Be a confident lady